Ask yourself if there is anything in your life you do just because you think you should and not because you truly want to. See how often today in you can replace saying “I should” with “I want to” or “I choose..”. Observe how you feel when you use “want” and “choose” vs “should”.

The Resilient Mind: How to Transform Pain into Strength
“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” — Jon Kabat-Zinn Resilient