Start journaling. For the next 2-3 days find a moment to write down how you feel to find the patterns in your most frequent emotions and feelings. This will increase your level of awareness. As a next step, start writing how you would like to feel instead in these situations that trigger you and what you want to feel more of.

The Resilient Mind: How to Transform Pain into Strength
“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” — Jon Kabat-Zinn Resilient